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Do Not Despise Small Beginnings

David was anointed king. Then he ended up in a cave. A reflection on the cave of Adullam, the Jesus pattern, and why it takes ten years to become an overnight success.

A sunlit desert cave in warm earth tones, the obscure work of becoming before the world ever sees it

David was the youngest. The smallest. The one left out in the pasture with the sheep while everyone else got the attention.

He was nobody.

And then Samuel the prophet anointed him as king of Israel. Not someday. Not eventually. Right then. The prophet of God looked at this small shepherd boy and said: You are chosen. You are destined. You will be great.

And then everything fell apart.

Chapter 17 rolls around and David kills Goliath. One stone. One man. One moment that makes him a national hero overnight. Everyone loves him. The women sing his name in the streets. He becomes king Saul's son-in-law. He's in.

Then chapter 18 hits and Saul hates him. Jealous. Threatened. Saul wants David dead.

Then chapter 19: Saul tries to kill him.

The man who was prophesied to be king. The man who was anointed by God. The man who just defeated a giant and united a nation. He's now a hunted man. A fugitive. Running for his life.

And in chapter 22, David ends up in a cave. The cave of Adullam. Living underground like a criminal. Like a nobody. Like the opposite of a king.

The Cave of Rejects

Here's what happened in that cave:

All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered around him, and he became their leader.

1 Samuel 22:2

The future king of Israel was now leading the rejected. The broken. The desperate. The people society had written off. The people nobody wanted. The people the world had forgotten.

This was David's first real experience as a leader. Not a king yet. Not celebrated. Not popular. Just a guy in a cave with other people's pain.

But here's what most people don't understand about that moment: that cave was the only place that could have prepared David for what he would eventually become.

You can't lead from a throne if you've never knelt in a cave.

You can't lead from power if you've never sat in powerlessness. You can't lead the broken if you've never been broken. You can't lead the rejected if you've never been rejected.

The cave of Adullam wasn't a setback. It was the curriculum.

The Jesus Pattern

Here's something that should blow your mind: this is exactly how Jesus did it.

Jesus came as the promised Messiah. The one who would save the world. The one that all of Scripture pointed toward. And what did he do? He went to taverns. He sat with sinners. He broke bread with prostitutes. He spent his time with the very people that respectable society rejected.

Jesus could have shown up and demanded everyone's attention. He could have gone to the synagogues and the temple and the halls of power. He could have built a movement of the elite and the popular and the successful.

Instead, he chose the cave. He chose the rejected. He chose the people nobody wanted.

And that became the template for everything he taught about kingdom.

The Overnight Success Lie

We all want to be successful. We all want to be popular. We all want to make a difference.

But then someone comes along who needs us, and they're not cool enough. They're not famous enough. They won't help our personal brand. Not enough people will notice. So we say no. We pass. We wait for the right opportunity.

And we miss it.

We're all chasing the overnight success. We're all looking for the shortcut. We're all waiting for the moment when we skip the cave and go straight to the throne.

But here's the truth that nobody wants to hear: it takes ten years to become an overnight success.

Ten years. And that's if you're hustling every single day. That's if you're showing up when nobody's watching. That's if you're leading the broken while you're still broken yourself. That's if you're doing the work in the darkness before anyone sees the light.

A slow start is not a sign you've picked the wrong thing. It's a sign you simply haven't yet learned what you need to know to win at that thing. Most people fail not because they picked the wrong path, but because they quit before they learned how to walk it.

People only see the results. They see David with the giant. They see Jesus with the crowds. They see the success, the platform, the influence. What they don't see is the ten years. The cave. The rejection. The failure. The obscurity. The work nobody's watching.

And so we believe we can do it faster. We believe we can compress the process. We believe we can skip the small beginnings and go straight to the big payoff.

We can't. And we won't.

The Promise

Here's what Scripture says about this exact struggle:

Let us not become weary in doing good. For at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Galatians 6:9 (NIV)

Notice what Paul says. The promise isn't instant. The promise is conditional. If you don't become weary. If you don't give up. Then at the proper time, you will reap. Not on your timeline. At the proper time.

That proper time is the cave. That proper time is the ten years. That proper time is learning how to walk the path before you ever run down it.

The Despising

The real sin isn't slow progress. The real sin is despising the small beginning.

It's looking at an opportunity to lead and dismissing it because the people aren't important enough. It's walking away from the work because you don't see immediate results. It's turning your nose up at the cave because it's not the throne.

That's despising the small beginning. And that's how you guarantee you'll never have a big ending.

David didn't become king because he was destined to be king. He became king because he showed up in the cave. Because he led the broken. Because he refused to despise the small beginning. Because he understood that leadership isn't about who you lead. It's about how you lead them.

Jesus didn't change the world because he had a platform. He changed the world because he sat in taverns with sinners. Because he touched the untouchable. Because he refused to despise the small beginning. Because he understood that the kingdom is built from the bottom up, not from the top down.

And you won't build anything of worth if you're waiting for the throne before you're willing to serve in the cave.

Your Cave

Here's what I know: you have a cave in front of you right now.

Maybe it's the job nobody else wants. Maybe it's the person nobody else will help. Maybe it's the project that won't make you famous. Maybe it's the work that happens in the darkness before dawn. Maybe it's the leadership moment where you serve people society has rejected.

You're going to want to despise it. You're going to look at it and think: this isn't big enough. This isn't important enough. Nobody's watching. Nobody cares. This won't move the needle.

And you'll be exactly right. It won't. Not yet.

But that's not the point. The point is what it does to you. The point is what you become in that cave. The point is the leader you're building yourself into while you're thinking nobody's watching.

Because they are watching. God is watching. The people you're leading are watching. And the ten years you spend in the cave, those ten years are writing the story that everyone will eventually want to read.

David didn't skip the cave. Jesus didn't skip the cave. And you won't skip it either.

So stop despising the small beginning. Stop waiting for the right opportunity. Stop thinking the work matters because people are watching.

The work matters because you're doing it. The leadership matters because you're showing up. The beginning matters because it's building you into the person who can handle the ending.

Do not despise small beginnings. They're not a setback. They're your curriculum.

And the person you become in that cave? That's the person who will eventually change the world.

Matthew A. Buckley

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Matthew A. Buckley

Former deputy sheriff, published author, and transformation coach. Matthew helps high-achievers stop drifting and build lives of intentional purpose through the proven Ditch the Drift framework. Sober since August 25, 2022.

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